We are proud to be in a society, which comprises of fragments of families, that makes a society. So true !!! We see family as our shelter for every thing, or say we lean to the family so much!!
Let us see when we say family, who comprise husband, wife, and kid’s mother in law and father in law. This is a nuclear family, while joint family is big one comprising of all the brother, sisters , kids…………………. and many people. Such a prefect thing right.
We are always in the family interdependent and dependent on each other for food, shelter, emotions, happiness, money so forth.
You might be wondering why I am telling u all this thing to you, there is a reason. Recently I accompanied my friend to family court , what a devastating experience for me. It just blew up everything of a family.
I have no idea why men and women get married when they can’t support each other and don’t have free flow of communication. I felt that , when you are so responsible in work , home and other places why can’t u be sensible enough to understand each other. Is that so difficult, as I don’t have experience in this area.
We say the “Marriages are made in Heaven” we make it hell in the earth.
This is like psycho game, like u in or out at times. There is a reason why I am writing before any of u take steps to family court think 100 times. Family court would just make you disrespected person accusing each other, lowering the self esteem, blaming of snatching away things(Thieves), manipulating of the documents, health issues(mental and physical) what else to u want .
Did you ever think that marriage would cause yourself such damage to you? Openly you accuse your husband, in-laws in –laws family and friends in the open court. Gosh!! Quiet scary!!
I was surprised that , women are a big part of it .I personal feel you want get out of marriage , please don’t accuse so much that your openly devastating the personal identity. I am dam against with it, whether it is a women or men .
Yeah all these women organization say that men do mistakes , what about women whether they are 100% right . Mistakes are done equally so respect both the sides.
Love should be thrown to all these people, some kind of yogic exercise will de-stressing all these women and men who are undergoing family court. After all we are human beings we do mistakes can’t we pardon . I am not philosophical it would be pathetic lives for both the individuals. In case if you have a kid it is more pathetic situation to the kid who is undergoing truma. Definitely it would be affecting both parents as well kid and there respect families.
I really appreciate that, the judge who would be giving judgement for these broken marriages. It would be headache for judges , to listen to accuse or to argue with these kinds of client. Well it is there profession , I had seen the smiling faces of the judges when 2 parties were arguing. There expression was ‘God Only save both of them’.
Lastly I would conclude “BE HAPPY WITH WHAT YOU HAVE DONOT COMPARE WITH OTHERS EVERYTHING U HAVE IS COSTLIER THAN THE NEXT PERSON WHO HAS” ‘COMMUNICATE EVERYTHING TO YOUR LOVED ONE THEY WOULD UNDERSTAND, DON’T BUILD WITHIN’
