We are proud to be in a society, which comprises of fragments of families, that makes a society. So true !!! We see family as our shelter for every thing, or say we lean to the family so much!!
Let us see when we say family, who comprise husband, wife, and kid’s mother in law and father in law. This is a nuclear family, while joint family is big one comprising of all the brother, sisters , kids…………………. and many people. Such a prefect thing right.
We are always in the family interdependent and dependent on each other for food, shelter, emotions, happiness, money so forth.
You might be wondering why I am telling u all this thing to you, there is a reason. Recently I accompanied my friend to family court , what a devastating experience for me. It just blew up everything of a family.
I have no idea why men and women get married when they can’t support each other and don’t have free flow of communication. I felt that , when you are so responsible in work , home and other places why can’t u be sensible enough to understand each other. Is that so difficult, as I don’t have experience in this area.
We say the “Marriages are made in Heaven” we make it hell in the earth.
This is like psycho game, like u in or out at times. There is a reason why I am writing before any of u take steps to family court think 100 times. Family court would just make you disrespected person accusing each other, lowering the self esteem, blaming of snatching away things(Thieves), manipulating of the documents, health issues(mental and physical) what else to u want .
Did you ever think that marriage would cause yourself such damage to you? Openly you accuse your husband, in-laws in –laws family and friends in the open court. Gosh!! Quiet scary!!
I was surprised that , women are a big part of it .I personal feel you want get out of marriage , please don’t accuse so much that your openly devastating the personal identity. I am dam against with it, whether it is a women or men .
Yeah all these women organization say that men do mistakes , what about women whether they are 100% right . Mistakes are done equally so respect both the sides.
Love should be thrown to all these people, some kind of yogic exercise will de-stressing all these women and men who are undergoing family court. After all we are human beings we do mistakes can’t we pardon . I am not philosophical it would be pathetic lives for both the individuals. In case if you have a kid it is more pathetic situation to the kid who is undergoing truma. Definitely it would be affecting both parents as well kid and there respect families.
I really appreciate that, the judge who would be giving judgement for these broken marriages. It would be headache for judges , to listen to accuse or to argue with these kinds of client. Well it is there profession , I had seen the smiling faces of the judges when 2 parties were arguing. There expression was ‘God Only save both of them’.
Lastly I would conclude “BE HAPPY WITH WHAT YOU HAVE DONOT COMPARE WITH OTHERS EVERYTHING U HAVE IS COSTLIER THAN THE NEXT PERSON WHO HAS” ‘COMMUNICATE EVERYTHING TO YOUR LOVED ONE THEY WOULD UNDERSTAND, DON’T BUILD WITHIN’
Tuesday, June 29, 2010
Tuesday, November 18, 2008
About a movie experience
we had been working like 24x7 all weeks from past 2mths to fulfill the dreams of others. We work for others to fulfill their goal. Though our benefit works to CV and the expereience we carry, whatever it is. I had no interest sitting idle, in my home. Books yes but had finished one , meeting my friends yeah do it routine . It was like let's go and clear up our head ??? Anything there.
Film Dostana, wow karan johar with his usual Kuch kuch hota hai types thought so . No no something good can't say , something interesting could be. Hey the PVR was full of college students and some like us bunked work. It was like market place, shouting for heroes ,we were like where are we??? Come on kids why are u messing up the place, i was with them and shouting, remembered my colleges days. we sat in the A row right in the front , as usual people roaming around. hey man come on can't even see a movie in peace.
The very first song came the heroes enter with sexy shilpa shetty. does she really have any muscles man!! Oh gosh nothing really!! hair style god only knows. The hotty priyanka with her mini wears looked too good!! These days boys expect girls to wear shorter ones than the longer ones. In the mid way saw a couple kissing each other, ignored as usual. Well we had no choice. Gay relationship nothing seems there in the movie expect a few scenes. Friendship yes there is , as karan loves it and we also. Good humour!
Intermission long ladies queues , popcorn .......... Serious like break ups ...... For reality this would not happen, it is just a cinema.
Friend and me had a wonderful and relaxing time. When we were into the car , we looked at each other and laughed. This laugh could be engulfed with lot things. What was it??? What if Karan starts showing all friends as Lesbians and Gays. It is very damaging to the society. But we confirmed each other a aloud and said that we are straight and we have boy friends. The effect of the movie was too much!! Watch out!!
Film Dostana, wow karan johar with his usual Kuch kuch hota hai types thought so . No no something good can't say , something interesting could be. Hey the PVR was full of college students and some like us bunked work. It was like market place, shouting for heroes ,we were like where are we??? Come on kids why are u messing up the place, i was with them and shouting, remembered my colleges days. we sat in the A row right in the front , as usual people roaming around. hey man come on can't even see a movie in peace.
The very first song came the heroes enter with sexy shilpa shetty. does she really have any muscles man!! Oh gosh nothing really!! hair style god only knows. The hotty priyanka with her mini wears looked too good!! These days boys expect girls to wear shorter ones than the longer ones. In the mid way saw a couple kissing each other, ignored as usual. Well we had no choice. Gay relationship nothing seems there in the movie expect a few scenes. Friendship yes there is , as karan loves it and we also. Good humour!
Intermission long ladies queues , popcorn .......... Serious like break ups ...... For reality this would not happen, it is just a cinema.
Friend and me had a wonderful and relaxing time. When we were into the car , we looked at each other and laughed. This laugh could be engulfed with lot things. What was it??? What if Karan starts showing all friends as Lesbians and Gays. It is very damaging to the society. But we confirmed each other a aloud and said that we are straight and we have boy friends. The effect of the movie was too much!! Watch out!!
Saturday, September 20, 2008
trees trees
We do lot of many things which are useless in our life. We do our daily routine. We eat, wash ourselves and work!! What else we can do. Lot of things, which we are potential from inside , why not do it . Recently when I was browsing the net, I found something really interesting. The routine life has been boredom as we go to coffee shop and sit there and chits chat! Is this a life which I am going to lead. No way. Make something very big and let the society follow it. I thought I could share in this blog. UN has come up with the idea of planting 100million trees in your community (world). UN has 8 millennium development goals. One of them is Ensure environment sustainability. Wow this is amazing one, an average person utilizes 16 trees for oxygen to survive his/her life span. I did not know till I read this article saying this. In my life I think I would have just planted 6-7 trees. I think this is a right cause where we could make a difference world over. We need to create this awareness and to encourage planting of trees. We need to stand up event on 17th -19th October. We could stand as group or organization for just for 2min any where. Don’t we have time for this for our own environment!! We should right why not do it ?? We could photographed the group min 100 members. This is could be sent to . Hey art of living is also one of the partners for it, art of living is a world famous non profit organization, it has made a difference to society. Last, year 6.5million took part in Stand up for the cause of poverty. Why not as individual we could contribute by propagating this to our friends. Let us stand up for the cause which could benefit for us.
For further information: http://www.standuptakeactionaolun.com/
For further information: http://www.standuptakeactionaolun.com/
Thursday, September 4, 2008
ADHD
DO U ALL KNOW ABOUT THIS PROBLEM??
Attention-Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) has undergone intense research in the past decade. About 5% of children is been affected by ADHD. Children with ADHD are identified as having increased behavioral difficulties because of excessive motor activities, poor self-regulation and inattentiveness. 30% of children inflicted with ADHD have learning disabilities with academic underachievement. These children do not meet the expectations of society and their learning environment they are usually met with anger, punishment, and rejection. In turn these children develop a low-self esteem and low levels of motivation. Even though ADHD occurs in people with various intelligence levels, a majority of children affected experience academic problems. These children may have specific learning disabilities, such as dyslexia, or may have multiple learning problems. Learning disabilities can be said to arise from attention difficulties in the classroom setting. Many of these difficulties occur in tasks where listening and time is a factor. Reading disabilities have also been found as a result of ADHD. Testing the intelligence of ADHD involves a number of measures. Psycho educational testing is used to assess intellectual ability and to search for learning disabilities. Tests such as the Wechler Intelligence Scale are used for intelligence testing; yet, much debate exists because of the need to change the test to meet the child's attention deficits. It is quite often found that the majority of ADHD children improve with psycho pharmaceuticals, specifically stimulants such as Ritalin. Results reveal that medication related improvements include increased work output, improved accuracy and efficiency, and better learning acquisition. Learning and achievements in arithmetic, reading, and fine motor skills improve as well. These results are quite dramatic in short term, but long-term efficacy is still questioned. There is much consensus in literature that a combination of treatment types is best to improve academic deficits. The cornerstones of treatment are support, education of parents, appropriate school placement, and psychopharmacology Results reveal that medication related improvements include increased work output, improved accuracy and efficiency, and better learning acquisition. Learning and achievements in arithmetic, reading, and fine motor skills improve as well. There is a 70 to 90 percent response rate to stimulants. These results are quite dramatic in short term, but long-term efficacy is still questioned. There is much consensus in literature that a combination of treatment types is best to improve academic deficits. The cornerstones of treatment are support, education of parents, appropriate school placement, and psychopharmacology
Attention-Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) has undergone intense research in the past decade. About 5% of children is been affected by ADHD. Children with ADHD are identified as having increased behavioral difficulties because of excessive motor activities, poor self-regulation and inattentiveness. 30% of children inflicted with ADHD have learning disabilities with academic underachievement. These children do not meet the expectations of society and their learning environment they are usually met with anger, punishment, and rejection. In turn these children develop a low-self esteem and low levels of motivation. Even though ADHD occurs in people with various intelligence levels, a majority of children affected experience academic problems. These children may have specific learning disabilities, such as dyslexia, or may have multiple learning problems. Learning disabilities can be said to arise from attention difficulties in the classroom setting. Many of these difficulties occur in tasks where listening and time is a factor. Reading disabilities have also been found as a result of ADHD. Testing the intelligence of ADHD involves a number of measures. Psycho educational testing is used to assess intellectual ability and to search for learning disabilities. Tests such as the Wechler Intelligence Scale are used for intelligence testing; yet, much debate exists because of the need to change the test to meet the child's attention deficits. It is quite often found that the majority of ADHD children improve with psycho pharmaceuticals, specifically stimulants such as Ritalin. Results reveal that medication related improvements include increased work output, improved accuracy and efficiency, and better learning acquisition. Learning and achievements in arithmetic, reading, and fine motor skills improve as well. These results are quite dramatic in short term, but long-term efficacy is still questioned. There is much consensus in literature that a combination of treatment types is best to improve academic deficits. The cornerstones of treatment are support, education of parents, appropriate school placement, and psychopharmacology Results reveal that medication related improvements include increased work output, improved accuracy and efficiency, and better learning acquisition. Learning and achievements in arithmetic, reading, and fine motor skills improve as well. There is a 70 to 90 percent response rate to stimulants. These results are quite dramatic in short term, but long-term efficacy is still questioned. There is much consensus in literature that a combination of treatment types is best to improve academic deficits. The cornerstones of treatment are support, education of parents, appropriate school placement, and psychopharmacology
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